I was just over at "Telling Secrets", Elizabeth Kaeton's blog. She posted this article which speaks more strongly to what I was attempting to say below:
That the church's silence and inaction in North America is also taking its toll on people.
That, yes we need to be concerned that people may be dying because of what we do say on the issue of full inclusion but it should not silence us because silence also has consequences.
Love and Prayers,